Solutions against anger in daily worldly life interactions (Gujarati Dadavani october-2011)

There is a general belief that one can achieve what he wants or he can improve others by getting angry. But has anyone any proof regarding the truth behind that belief? When one gets angry, he ruins of his own first and then spoils for others too; as a result there is a loss for the both parties. Is the human life for to earn the profit of life after life or to incur a loss? Dadashri says in this situation that he can tell him wherever it is necessary but do so without attachment-abhorrence (raag-dwesh). Maintain strictness in one eye and love in the other eye. Strictness does not harm the other person but anger does a lot of damage. It is a terrible mistake to beat a dependent or hurt him through anger. One has to carry out worldly life interaction but it should be ideal. Worldly interaction should be such that it does not hurt anyone at all. There is no harm in punishing wherever it is necessary but to become angry is a problem.